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For the other partner, it may help remove their "entitlement" thinking. The other partner may well replace their thought process of "I own my partner's sexuality" Wives wants casual sex Zinc "my partner's sexuality to me is a gift, it doesn't belong to me". Zinc, I sense you have a great deal of guilt about your affairs, and if your wife has her own affair then that will bring up your own guilt again. Might be something in that worth looking Wives wants casual sex Zinc.

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I think I am beginning to understand non monogamy a little better. HDP wants more sex with LDP, LDP and HDP believe sex outside the marriage to fulfill that need will not drive them apart, but will be helpful to the marriage or to themselves, and will enhance their marriage because; 1. Sex with someone else demonstrates how both partners hold on to themselves and how neither Wives wants casual sex Zinc owns the others sexuality.

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Witnessing your spouse having sex with someone else actively discloses to your partner your sexual desire for them Wives wants casual sex Zinc someone else. When you have sex with someone outside your marriage with the consent of your partner, are you disclosing your desire for your partner which desire is not being metor your desire caxual have sex with someone new?

Unless you are a sex slave, how does monogamy or non monogamy demonstrate Wives wants casual sex Zinc or non ownership of someones sexuality? What if your partner gets off on you having sex iWves someone else, then non monogamy does exactly the opposite. It demonstrates how the other partner DOES casial your sexuality because you are having sex with a relative stranger to satisfy 17512 ballroom tonight sexual needs of your partner, not yours.

Non monogamy, just like monogamy, is a choice a couple makes for themselves ultimately.

I don't see how one could "own" the others sexuality regardless of the decision. I understand monogamy and non monogamy are lifestyle choices.

I do not think someones choice is "better" in the judgemental sense, than anothers. If we go back to one of Zinc's original concerns about whether accepting his wife's request to have sex outside the marriage is an avenue for differentiation, and whether he should say yes to her non Wives wants casual sex Zinc request and "hold on to himself" while she screws someone else? I don't see how being non monogamous allows either of them to work toward either objective. I can even see how the original problem Zinc's wife expressed about improving intimacy with Zinc could be detrimentally affected.

Zinc, you said it yourself, when you were having extramarital affairs, you took care not to get emotionally involved, and you believe the ability to compartmentalize and distance yourself from the women you had sex with was a male trait and not one easily acquired by women I am paraphrasing Lonely girls 32837 Wives wants casual sex Zinc hope I understood you correctly.

I think our brains are definitely wired very differently when it comes to separating emotions from actions and most women do not separate emotions from their actions easily.

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We are Wives wants casual sex Zinc that way for a reason. I think Zinc already knows what is likely to happen if his Wives wants casual sex Zinc has sex outside the marriage. I think he has good reason to "hold wxnts to himself" and "differentiate" by explaining to his wife he does not want her to have Wive with someone else, but he does want to continue to improve their intimacy and passion for swx another without experimenting with casual sex outside the marriage.

Goodness what a rich discussion! Sorry been traveling and sick both. When I boil down why, I believe the honest Wives wants casual sex Zinc is that I get a huge sense of reflected self from being my wife's "one and only". I had the adolescent experience of suddenly losing my girlfriend at age 14 when I didn't go to a football game and she did and ended up making out with another guy. My instant response? I married early partially to "lock this wonderful woman down", meaning, protect casula reflected sense of self that she gave me by selecting and being with me, by closing on a committed partnership.

Housewives wants sex tonight WI Exeland 54835 get all that. I can see the value of having a more solid, independent differentiated self in this regard. Am I reduced by her wanting an outside sexual experience, really?

I can see intellectually that I don't have to be. What comes up at this point in my thinking though is that "sense of threat". We tend to always talk about feelings of being threatened as "our own internal insecurity", but wait a minute, isn't eex sometimes the case that there really IS a threat?

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I don't remember if I said it in my original post, but what's come out in our very initial exploration of this is that she has no interest in any casual sex; she wants romantic sex, because To her, "real" sex can't happen without romance. Where this leads me, even if and it's an if I can be differentiated about this, is thinking that should it go down, my relationship with her IS potentially threatened.

Is it really in my life interest to have Albany horny girls wife develop a deep romantic relationship with another partner? That strikes me as being incredible "risk-ful", in so many dimensions. Because I am in fact NOT yet Wives wants casual sex Zinc differentiated in this area and definitely DO in my core, I can intellectualize around it but faced with a real situation I know my reptilian Sexy local girls Dearborn is going to take over with some incredibly powerful emotions need validation from her as "important" by being her "only", I know how I'd respond if today she told me for example she was falling in love with person X and wants to move ahead with sex with him.

I'd want to flee. Then I'm gone, you've made your choice. I'm trying to look at that and figure it out and see if and how I can evolve myself to being my own man, but it is Wives wants casual sex Zinc, very hard. But I keep coming back to the question, "is that response fundamentally wrong, or is there some significant legitimacy to it as Wives wants casual sex Zinc protection mechanism?

The list is endless for a paranoid mind anyway.

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Then there's the question of what does she get out of this? I can't answer for her I've given her a pointer casuaal, maybe she'll want to participate or maybe she'll want to keep it all to our therapy room and our formalized discussion times. But it's not hard to speculate.

If I'd only been with her in my entire life and she'd extensively experienced sex with others, I'd be thinking "gee that would be fun, I've always fantasized about other women and she got it so why shouldn't I indulge in that a bit?

When our Dr. What I pull from Wives wants casual sex Zinc is that she's excited by the wonderful validation she'll get from a new ccasual hot reflected sense of self via Wives wants casual sex Zinc new lover or is that being Sexy lady wants sex Albany negatively judgmental? She'll get to experience "new love", new relationship energy, she'll get very high off it she's a clean and sober alcoholic by the wayand Wivse sure that's all extremely alluring to her, EVEN WITH the fact that I'm working my tail off to give her as much of these things as I can in our relationship but hey, I'm Wives wants casual sex Zinc and can never truly be Zonc new".

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I should mention that she's said a couple of Wives wants casual sex Zinc that she'll "bring these outside experiences back", and I need to ask her to explore and share whatever thinking is behind that. Because outside of this statement, I can't see what her desire has to do with helping OUR relationship.

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I think she does esx some thinking rationalization or fact I don't know that Wives wants casual sex Zinc "develop" Wives wants casual sex Zinc thereby and hence zex "bring back" comment. I can certainly see how this does handled well help us both to grow independent of outcome, but I don't think that's a reason why she's expressing the interest! A few other important points about our relationship: And she's come willingly with me into some experimental areas, with fantasy and role playing, of multiple types.

She's had fun doing it, but also indicates that "it's because you want it" as opposed to any real need or explicit desire on her part. I'd say at this point I might be the HDP for intimacy!

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Which is a Adult want orgasm Trenton New Jersey turnaround from before. I'm the reader and the explorer, and bring "stuff" to her, and Wives wants casual sex Zinc seek to understand intellectually what's going on in every area of interestso now casyal it's "relationship", I can't really get enough time being intimate with her. She's often too Wives wants casual sex Zinc, honestly.

So I don't think what she's wanting or expects to get out of an outside sexual relationship is anything per se in the realm of unmet sexual desires Wvies unmet need for intimacy per se.

She knows more and different are plenty available with me.

It's "new" that seems to be the core of her desire. Last comment, I don't think I have any "guilt issues" about the past. I continue to want to understand what I did and why I did it, what it says about me Nude girls Wall and now etc. Thanks so Wives wants casual sex Zinc, -Zinc. One aspect waants Dr.

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Schnarch's definition of 'differentiation' is the ability to keep your emotional balance while interacting in important relationships. He talks about differentiation as being a development of our "four points of balance" one point being a strong flexible selfand says the stronger your "four points of balance" are, the more differentiated we are, and the more differentiated we are, the stronger our love and desire can be for one another.

He also goes on to explain how developing our four points of Wives wants casual sex Zinc may also lead to evolution of our minds and deeper feelings. Do you feel a romantic, extra marital, love affair, which is disclosed, develops 'differentiation', if the extra marital love affair simply feeds the reflected sense of self? Moms in Corona to fuck differentiation based on developing a 'strong flexible of self' and not a 'reflected sense of self'?

Isn't it also differentiation if you let your wife know you do not want to be in a non monogamous marriage because you feel it will open the door to the possibility that your wife fall in love with someone else and Wives wants casual sex Zinc marital relationship would deteriorate and may Wives wants casual sex Zinc lost. If either of you fell in love with someone else, your marriage would end, or at the very least suffer, right?

So, isn't it also 'differentiation' when you stand up for your desires and beliefs monogamy, improved intimacy between the two of you, and sexual exploration with each othermake THOSE desires and beliefs clear, Wives wants casual sex Zinc then "hold on to yourself" as your wife decides what she would like to do, ie.

Schnarch's theory of differentiation and stronger sense of self? Is Wivws contrary to 'differentiation', if Zinf accept non monogamy in caxual marriage, even though you truly do not want this? And isn't supporting your wife's desire to have extra marital, romantic Vasual affair s so she can develop her 'reflected sense of self' also contrary to 'differentiation'?

Are you compromising yourself not holding onto yourselfto accommodate your wife's need to have sex with someone else? Sorry, but I don't see how your fears of watching your wife become romantically involved with someone else are an indication of being insecure or paranoid. Your fears are realistic and show that you cherish If you are working cassual developing a "stronger sense of self", rather than a "reflected one", and you are both seeking higher "differentiation", improved intimacy, stronger sense of self, and ultimately a happy marriage where neither of you need to have sex Sex chat with Mesa girl anyone other than each other to feel good about yourselfthen standing up for how you feel, without making any demands, would be a way to 'differentiate'.

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